ALLERGY IN CHILDREN: AVOIDANCE AND ELIMINATION
Some of the worst problems with caring for a child are caused by avoidance and elimination, particularly over food elimination and special diets.
There is no easy answer on how to manage a child on an elimination diet when foods are being tested, or on a special permanent diet which excludes problem foods. It can also be very hard to have to get rid of a much-loved pet, or for a child to give up a loved activity, such as swimming.
Perhaps the best advice is to start as you mean to go on; to be as firm, clear and consistent as you can, and not to go back on your word or appear to waver. Explain, as far as the child is able to comprehend and in practical terms, why you are doing things – ‘because you get spots’, ‘to stop your tummy hurting’. Even very young children can be sensible if they see practical consequences.
Do not bully, plead, cajole, manipulate or over-compensate – most children can spot when you are feeling vulnerable and will exploit it. Just be matter-of-fact and do your best.
Do not be provoked, either, by other siblings playing off the situation – deal with them as fairly as you can, quash any taunting or teasing, and make sure they get enough attention – they may act badly if they feel neglected. Do not over-compensate, either – they too have to learn that life sometimes can be unfair and does not deliver exactly what they want.
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